There is no such thing as a coincidence...

You really do have to be careful what you wish for. Sometimes the things we think we want turn out to be an entirely different story. Usually life doesn't give us what we want, but instead, it gives us what we are supposed to get. However, sometimes when you just won't give it up, life gives you what you want to make you see it isn't what you want at all. Things happen in our lives for a reason. Nothing just happens, and no one does something without cause. There is always a reason behind everything. Unfortunately, it usually takes quite some time for us to figure out what that reason is, so for a long time, we don't understand why the things that happen, happen. Sometimes it isn't something that is pleasant or wanted. It happens to teach us something.