Hindsight really is 20/20...

Looking back and seeing what you didn't see or didn't want to see before, can make you realize the things that you tried so hard to deny and ignore were true. All the things that people had been telling you all along, they're true. Most of the time, you didn't see them before because you didn't want to. You knew. You just didn't want to believe it. Sometimes though, you have to stare things right in the face and truly look at them. You have to accept them. You have to finally make yourself stop trying to ignore what is right there and force yourself to come to terms with it. That is the only way you can really move on. You may never get over it, but you can move on.